tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5291233077621229166.comments2022-09-04T13:07:46.930-07:00Getting Verbal Abuse out of my LifeUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger180125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5291233077621229166.post-31429273287560946352015-03-14T14:40:42.518-07:002015-03-14T14:40:42.518-07:00I am 26 and I am experiencing a similar experience...I am 26 and I am experiencing a similar experience in my to be soon married situation. We have been together 2 years. I am looking forward to these posts as they are a light to my dark tunnel. Thank you so much for sharing...Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09600174420200766502noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5291233077621229166.post-36071970758391498842015-03-14T14:39:32.768-07:002015-03-14T14:39:32.768-07:00thank you for sharing these Posts. I am 26 to be m...thank you for sharing these Posts. I am 26 to be married soon and I am experiencing everything you are describing. We have been engaged for 1.5 years and together for 6 months. I started noticing his anger a year into our relationship and it hit it's peak then, it has simmered down and is now emerging. It is taking alot of my spirit down, I am so happy to find your words as they are a light to my dark tunnel. This is the hardest thing I have ever experienced, i am looking forward to reading more Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09600174420200766502noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5291233077621229166.post-38155778781149623752013-11-22T08:04:08.592-08:002013-11-22T08:04:08.592-08:00I am a recovering abuser. Please do not hate me, I...I am a recovering abuser. Please do not hate me, I am in real therapy and am really working on it everday. This is totally how it is and every husband who verbally abuses should read this article to begin the healing process. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5291233077621229166.post-51770417270720018512013-10-01T03:48:35.996-07:002013-10-01T03:48:35.996-07:00I would love to see an update. How are you doing n...I would love to see an update. How are you doing now in fall 2013?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5291233077621229166.post-19409651445992730412013-09-16T08:20:31.180-07:002013-09-16T08:20:31.180-07:00I hear and understand everything you expressed in ...I hear and understand everything you expressed in your post. I am just learning what my life for the past 42 years was like. My story is long and I lived with him for 42 years for a good reason but too long to explain here. I just want to share with you I understand and I have created a Blog for my Visual Journaling expressing my feelings of hurt in my art. Please check it out and follow me.<br /><br />www.scrapperjudedesigns.wordpress.com<br />scrapperJude Designshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01381776137119639965noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5291233077621229166.post-16075517901882804062013-06-04T01:27:35.315-07:002013-06-04T01:27:35.315-07:00Jennie? I just found your blog. I have been readin...Jennie? I just found your blog. I have been reading for hours. Are you still here? Please let me know.<br /><br />Thanks; LizzieAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5291233077621229166.post-82477941761169662732013-03-14T22:00:52.763-07:002013-03-14T22:00:52.763-07:00I'm just now going through this. I am convince...I'm just now going through this. I am convinced my husband hates me. I am scared about my future with this man because he has made me feel so bad about myself that I often feel like jumping off a bridge....he doesn't get it and doesn't care about changing. Cheating, lying, belittling me, how can I feel any value with myself when I am just "a cunt like my mother "Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5291233077621229166.post-54843815405839800582013-02-25T08:52:58.994-08:002013-02-25T08:52:58.994-08:00i am constantly stepping on eggshells and im 10 we...i am constantly stepping on eggshells and im 10 weeks pregnant. If I dont agree with anything he says im a bitch, cunt. I hate more then anything being called a cunt. And i cant call him anything back or it just gets x234566 times worse. I hate my life. I hate my husband. Hes not even.close to the same person i fell in love with 4 years ago. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5291233077621229166.post-27711049570094854282013-02-08T16:26:34.597-08:002013-02-08T16:26:34.597-08:00I am new here. Not new to D.V.
It's just wron...I am new here. Not new to D.V.<br />It's just wrong that you...'we' are so disrespected that WE have to be the ones that leave, out into the night. No money most likely. It's exhausting. These <br />males' cuz they are Men, feel so Entitled to treat Women (femininity) like trash ! I hope you can find a SAFE place to BE.<br />I hope I can also. There needs to be MORE of these. And more people need to HELP women MORE FINANCIALLY.<br />God BlessAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5291233077621229166.post-64280742154740824832012-06-11T12:19:10.850-07:002012-06-11T12:19:10.850-07:00do u know how I could get added to Marianna's ...do u know how I could get added to Marianna's blog so I can read it?Jenny Damagedhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14157279377957087728noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5291233077621229166.post-21209471288910691312012-02-14T10:51:57.770-08:002012-02-14T10:51:57.770-08:00I'm so sorry to hear about all the pain you ha...I'm so sorry to hear about all the pain you have had to go through...I just wanted to say thank you. It is nice to know that there are people out there who recognize verbal abuse for what is is. Usually, people only pay attention to broken bones, not broken hearts. I am hoping my blog will help people as yours has. Thank you so much. God Bless You :)xLiveOutLoudxhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17381784261171697989noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5291233077621229166.post-53256928492118171572011-11-24T05:43:59.647-08:002011-11-24T05:43:59.647-08:00Yep, I completely understand, my husband and I hav...Yep, I completely understand, my husband and I have been married for two years Nov 21st and not 2 Weeks earlier he changedfrom being the sweetest guy ever for the most part, into a freaking schizophrenic psycho. I'm not aloud to voice my opinion or have a disagreement about anything without being verbally beat down being called a "stupid bitch ass cunt, that's selfish and thinks of no one but my slut skank Ass self" over nothing anywhere close to serious. And I have never heard of men calling a woman, let alone their wife such horrible things. Its like he went bipolar within a month. And his excuse its that he 's been bottling it all up for the last 3 years. But yet the next day he is groveling at my feet. I can't keep doing this, I have emotions and thinkwe should be able argue civilly with out those reprecutiins any time I seem discontent. I really think (but never would have before) this is a precurser to worse things to come, but I'm not sure. I don't want to leave him but I don't know what to do. Any advice would be awesome, I don't what to live like this forever. Any opinion I have can't be voiced because, he will cut me off before he knows what I'm gonna say, then mocks what he thinks I was gonna say, and he won't let me finish because he stated "he's done caring about my feelings". After us being next door neighbors, then best friends then the man I married, and I do everything I can to make him happy, in every which way, which im sure we can all relate to. And yeah, I can be somewhat of a bitch but never verbal abuse even close to that, to any one I've been with. Please help me out if anyone have advice in this situation. Thanks.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5291233077621229166.post-79859207002323976352011-10-03T07:22:24.661-07:002011-10-03T07:22:24.661-07:00I am praying for you , for me and for all those su...I am praying for you , for me and for all those suffering from verbal abuse. It's too late for me as I am now 65 but I will lift you up in prayer today. Please stay strong. Trust in God to tell you what your next step should be.Golden Oldiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09041396654491337274noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5291233077621229166.post-38393536389239650072011-07-25T14:51:31.142-07:002011-07-25T14:51:31.142-07:00hi, i am in the process of writing a blog of my ex...hi, i am in the process of writing a blog of my experiences of being with a somatic narcissistic wife, and i hope that it will be of some help to others out there in the same boat<br /><a href="http://somatic-narcissistic-wife.blogspot.com/" rel="nofollow">somatic narcissistic wife</a>survivedhellhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08252111432353828053noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5291233077621229166.post-69223944894653316532010-12-21T16:17:38.408-08:002010-12-21T16:17:38.408-08:00I hate my husband too. Im going to leave him he c...I hate my husband too. Im going to leave him he called me a cunt, a fucking cunt, shut your fucken fat mouth you funken cunt. Im leaving the bastard.Rosenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5291233077621229166.post-34413824839847034322010-05-26T23:47:23.887-07:002010-05-26T23:47:23.887-07:00We seem to fear most, the very thing we must do to...We seem to fear most, the very thing we must do to prevent it. Why are we made this way ? <br />Because we always hope.<br /><br />I wish you well.A Mother Alwayshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13061214919572800420noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5291233077621229166.post-1786315002341205122010-05-04T09:18:57.344-07:002010-05-04T09:18:57.344-07:00wow... i feel your pain .... it really hurts.
I le...wow... i feel your pain .... it really hurts.<br />I left that one night in June.. with five children. My youngest was only 3 years old. my 18 yr old has Cerebral Palsy.<br />I had no where to go.<br />21 yrs of abuse.. I couldn't take it anymore...<br />I made a video to help others<br />http://www.youtube.com/user/godandenergy?feature=mhw5#p/a/u/2/f0Oi6GMLn0Q<br />my journey still continues...<br />I am free<br />http://godandenergy.comAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15018107601592444117noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5291233077621229166.post-27124693672064838722010-03-23T20:36:10.348-07:002010-03-23T20:36:10.348-07:00I can totally relate to this. I am reading this b...I can totally relate to this. I am reading this blog because my husband gets upset when I bring my book out. Just to be clear...I got he book out to recall the name of the author. I bought the book about 8 years ago. Since that time I have tried to get him to read it but he has refused. So when he saw the book out he "assumed I was talkign about him. So he read some negative reviews and started to make fun of the book and me for reading and agreeing. He sent me this blog to prove a point. So now I am sittign here reading it and responding to posts with hime by my side...Just to proove a point. Man I Love you Patricia Evans. I no longer cry and feel depressed because he torments me. Damnn it feels good.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10154459759760446342noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5291233077621229166.post-51665636853353427622010-03-01T16:49:04.947-08:002010-03-01T16:49:04.947-08:00I have truly been relieved to find your blog! I ha...I have truly been relieved to find your blog! I have just recently acknowledged that my husband verbally abuses me and has probably since the get go which is about 34 years. Don't they say "Better late than Never":) I just purchased 2 books the other day that aren't here yet to help me better understand things, but I would guess they are going to say exactly what I have read here just now. I want to thank you for putting your feelings out there for those of us who need it can find it! Thank you again. I am just starting this journey with my new found wisdom and am not stupid enough to believe it will be smooth sailing, I expect quite the opposite. I am not sure at this point if I can still remain hopeful, the state I have been in all our years together, but I do believe people can change if they want it badly enough. Thanks again and I will sign up for your blog, know that you are the 1st one that I have ever done that with:)<br />My husband used to also physically abuse me until I quit drinking almost 20 years ago, I then found that I had a mind of my own:) And also made it clear that if it happened again then the police would be called and to hell with the consequences. The only thing now is that I feel really stupid in that I just put a name to what he does and what I have let happen by not seeing it sooner.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5291233077621229166.post-36284774414821213202010-01-31T08:01:13.207-08:002010-01-31T08:01:13.207-08:00Thank you Daniel. I was willing to hang in there s...Thank you Daniel. I was willing to hang in there so long as he was doing the work and things were moving in a positive direction over time. Clearly, that positive movement came to a screeching halt.<br /><br />I hope you are continuing to heal and grow, however your situation turned out.jenniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05373121865782897369noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5291233077621229166.post-7294447631818012592010-01-31T07:57:50.320-08:002010-01-31T07:57:50.320-08:00LOL. Thanks Leila for the validation. I like your ...LOL. Thanks Leila for the validation. I like your fire.<br /><br />I certainly feel like giving him hell, yet sometimes, giving them hell just shows how much you care. KWIM? A woman who has moved on and is getting dolled up and going out with a handsome dude doesn't take time to send photos to the stbx. He's just not worth the trouble.<br /><br />Not that I don't think there is a time and place for a good 'scene', I'm just smart enough to know that I can't pull that off from another continent.<br /><br />It's not that I feel like I have to be 'nice' to him. In this situation, few words and moving quietly away feels like the dignified thing to do for ME.jenniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05373121865782897369noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5291233077621229166.post-88143967130436116622010-01-31T07:50:52.066-08:002010-01-31T07:50:52.066-08:00Chris, I do realize that men in particular, do not...Chris, I do realize that men in particular, do not look forward to "relationship talks". However, learning how to resolve things is part of being in a relationship. <br /><br />I have worked very hard to make my marriage work and I did not make the decision to leave lightly. <br /><br />Compromise on many things is good in a marriage, but no one should ever compromise on being treated with love and respect.jenniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05373121865782897369noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5291233077621229166.post-68192252178341598512010-01-29T13:45:29.367-08:002010-01-29T13:45:29.367-08:00This comment has been removed by the author.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5291233077621229166.post-36965807387641093642010-01-24T00:27:09.806-08:002010-01-24T00:27:09.806-08:00My God, do people really handle things that nicely...My God, do people really handle things that <i>nicely</i>? After something like that, I would have given him Hell, especially with suspicion of another woman being involved. I would have acted a fool on him. But that's just me, I suppose. I ain't the most civil person around.<br /><br />Oh well... go get all dolled up, find some handsome dude, take pictures of you having a good time and email them to your husband, insulting his manhood. Heheh... okay, still something I would do.<br /><br />sorry, don't think i really have any useful advice.Leilahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13370990222038913968noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5291233077621229166.post-40410224215578195162010-01-23T20:26:24.620-08:002010-01-23T20:26:24.620-08:00I don't think he had anyone else, but if there...I don't think he had anyone else, but if there is argument before you go he may fear that it will be more argument when you meet him where ever he is. Men fear argument and they want to be alone.<br /><br />All the advisor givers are not realizing how hard you build a relationship and no one wants to give up easily. Most commenter is encouraging separation instead of compromise and hold on to your marriage.Chrisnoreply@blogger.com